22 Ways to Bless Your Parents

1. Honor them. (It is the Lord's command.)
2. Spend time with them. (If possible.)
3. Call them. (Time flies by! Next thing we know, weeks have gone by.)
4. Mail a hand written note. (Hand written notes are such a blessing; I LOVE receiving them!)
5. Forgive them. (Drench yourself in the love of your Heavenly Father and forgive them for any wrongdoings/shortcomings. Forgiveness is a blessing for them, but also for your sake and relationship with God. It's honoring to Him.)
6. Do not gossip about them. (It's ugly.)
7. Cook for them. (They cooked for you for a lot of years =)
8. Send them a fruit basket. (Fruit baskets just make people smile =)
9. Relinquish feelings of entitlement. (No matter the degree of sacrifice they made for you, most parents did the best they possibly could.)
10. Make a CD. (If you don't know their favorite songs, poke around.)
11. Frame an old photo. (Do you have pictures of your mom pushing you on a swing? Or dad holding your hand while you walk down the street? These can be absolutely beautiful gifts!)
12. Do a craft together. (Creativity brings out such good feelings and is a sure way to a good time! (Most times.)
13. Ease any regrets. (Parents mess up. We're human! Bless them with mercy.)
14. Handle bill paying. (Depending on their age, this could be a HUGE help.)
15. Encourage them. (Sometimes after years of procrastinating, people feel they might as well give up on their dreams. If one or both of your parents feels this way encourage them that it is NEVER too late!)
16. Make a scrapbook. (Detailing all of your favorites about them.)
17. Pray over them. (With age comes a lot more time to THINK (or maybe not.) Pray for a sound and discerning mind.
18. Laugh. (Make jokes, have fun, laughter is the best medicine.)
19. Cry. (Sometimes a good cry is therapeutic. Of course, don't force the cry, just don't hold it back.)
20. Doctor's appointments. (If possible, it would be really thoughtful to be present during an important visit to the doctor.)
21. Compliment. (Compliments are such a blessing!)
22. Let Jesus shine through you. (The peace that emanates from a person who walks closely with the Lord is a re-assuring presence, surely to uplift those in close proximity.)

Not everyone had a good experience with their parents. Sadly, some have had horrific experiences. There is no way (unless you've been given direct revelation) to know why some things in life happen. It is my belief that hurt people, hurt others. Which is particularly why we need to have compassion. In making the decision to release, move forward, and forgive, we break the chains that long to keep us bound in a detrimental downward cycle.

If you had a wonderful childhood, express your appreciation to your parents; you have been given a true gift!

Like with every other aspect of life, the different relationship scenarios are countless. Whatever your dynamic, I pray that you feel at peace in this moment in your life knowing that you have a Heavenly Father who loves, adores, and cherishes you beyond measure. 

When is shopping for *Curriculum* Going to Stop?!

I have had such an interesting and pleasurable time shopping for curriculum, but now I can't stop! Almost everything I come across can in some way be a teaching tool, however these are my last purchases for a while. I do still need to buy some supplies for projects, and I am also on the prowl for a *pretty* 36 pocket accordion file folder, but that just seems wishful thinking...

I need to keep learning fun, because learning really is FUN! I thought these Math Dice were great!

I enjoyed this book soooo much!! If you don't have it already, please pick it up!!

In an effort to begin a new cleaning *schedule* I thought it was a good idea for my girls to see as clear as possible what is expected of them. The goal is for them to start their chores without much prompting, to instill independence. While I want to empower my beauties with confidence, and a sense of responsibility, I will always be devotedly available to lovingly guide them throughout the day, however they need me. 

These are in the mail! SO excited!

This I have my eye on for my pre-schooler, by Fat Cat Phonics, it is pretty pricey though...

There are countless ways to teach our children, and in my opinion character trumps every subject. I feel so blessed to be led by the presence of God during our first homeschooling year. Uncertainty, bewilderment, and even anxiety have tried invading my sound mind; but I have resolved to trust the peace that exist within me. And truly I am thankful that Peace is really existent within my spirit. None of it is by my might. I only put Him first and He lends to me His character. I long to wash His feet with my hair, I worship my Precious King...

A Letter To Us Women...

To the lady chosen by God and to her children, whom I love in the truth - and not I only, but also all who know the truth - because of the truth, which lives in us and will be with us forever:
Grace, mercy and peace from God the Father and from Jesus Christ, the Father's Son, will be with us in truth and love. It has given me great joy to find some of your children walking in the truth, just as the Father commanded us. And now, dear lady, I am not writing to you a new command but one we have had from the beginning. I ask that we love one another. And this is love: that we walk in obedience to His commands. As you have heard from the beginning, His command is that you walk in love. ~ 2 John  1~6

22 Ways To Bless Your Husband

1. See him out the door in the morning. (Something very special about this. It's very hard for me because my hubby is gone by 4:30 AM, then I can't get back to sleep, but I think it's SO sweet.)
2. Cook his favorite meals often. (You know the old saying: The way to a mans heart is through his belly =)
3. Look neat and clean when he comes home from work. (Being dressed up may not be reasonable depending on the time he arrives, but combed hair and smelling nice is a sure blessing!) 
4. Handle family gathering details with in-laws. (In our family we're a bunch of women and he appreciates not having to confuse himself in our details. There are usually many details =)
5. Spend alone time with him. (If you have small children, it's wonderful that you delight in raising them and care not for leaving them behind. But one day they will be out of the house, and there you will be with your husband. Do you know him the way you once did? Do you have fun together? So long as there is a trusted person who can watch your kiddies, there's really nothing wrong with stepping out with your love. We only get to do this one to two times a year, and we have great fun every time!) 
6. Massage him. (If your husband has a physical job his muscles need to be tugged on and touched. If he doesn't have a physical job, I'm sure he wouldn't mind your hands rubbing on him!)
7. Wear lingerie. (Is there a man on the planet who wouldn't appreciate this?)
8. Take interest in his hobbies. (If you are worried about coming off hypocritical, think about it like this: You're interested in him, right? Well those desires of his heart are a part of who he is, so in essence there is a genuine interest.)
9. Give him alone time. (Some people don't like being alone, and if that is your husband scratch this one. But it's nice to quietly unwind in our own homes. If he needs this, don't be discouraged or take it personally.)
10. Discipline your children. (What a blessing for the man who doesn't have to come home to chaos. Having small children I understand what it's like for there to be a lot ENERGY in the home, but children need to know boundaries.)
11. Light some candles. (Candles are romantic, yes, but they also serve to relax the body and mind. Set the stage for your man to relax.)
12. Keep your home. (A clean home in my opinion is one of life's greatest things. There is no place like a clean home.)
13. Sing or dance for him. (I love how in some cultures this is the norm. In my opinion this is one of the loveliest things a woman can do for her man.)
14. Listen to him. (Sometimes we women talk too much. Point blank.)
15. Write him a love letter. (Make it juicy.)
16. Plan a rendezvous. (Get a baby sitter (without him knowing) and take him out to dinner, or if circumstances allow ~ a surprise weekend getaway would be great!)
17. Be spontaneous. (Use your imagination.)
18. Pray for wisdom. (The wise woman is an invaluable blessing.)
19. Appreciate him. (Genuinely)
20. Public Praise. (Not to promote pride in any way; I think it's a great way to re-affirm confidence.)
21. Soak his feet. (Do you love pedicures? I do! I don't get them often, but soaking right at home, sitting in a comfy chair or sofa is just as good. It's really a blessing.)
22. Look him in the eye and smile. (Let him see that sparkle that tells *I'm a woman in love*! Be giddy, be joyful.)

You know your husband best; some of these suggestions would not be appreciated by him. That's all they are, suggestions, to get the wheels rolling in our minds so that we can continue to be a blessing to God's precious gift to us, our husbands.

He
How beautiful you are, my darling. How very beautiful! Your eyes are doves.
She
How handsome you are, my love. How delightful! Our bed is lush with foliage. ~ Son of Solomon 1:15-16


This Post is linked at: Raising Mighty Arrows,  Our Simple Country Life, Ramblings of A Christian Mom,  Homemaker By Choice , Far Above Rubies, Raising Homemakers , A Wise Woman Builds Her Home, Your Thriving Family

                         My Child, My Princess

This came in the mail today and so it was the bedtime story that I read to my girls. It's 73% off right now @ Christian Books (just click on the title); I think it is a good buy. Well written. And it actually opened up a lot of feelings inside of me about my childhood. Thank God He loves us unconditionally; with an agape love...

22 Ways to Bless Your Children

1. Hug, kiss, and love on them all day. (Affection really is medicine for the body and soul!)
2. Go down to their level when reprimanding them. (We are giants to these children, and it's tough constantly hearing that they can't have their way.)
3. Have mercy at bedtime, when they just want ONE more of everything! (There is a desperation in children at bedtime. They are just SO vulnerable! Let's use this sensitive time to open new doors in the realm of child/parent relationships.)
4. Don't speak an unknown language to disguise the content of your conversation. (Okay many will disagree with this one because that's the easiest way to have a *private* conversation and protect little ears from adult conversations, but let's think about this. Wouldn't it be INCREDIBLY rude if while having company (someone who did not speak our native tongue) we burst into *private* conversation with our husbands. I couldn't imagine.)
5. Play with them. (This one seems so obvious, but I speak for myself when I say sometimes a whole day or two goes by without playing with my children. That saddens me.)
6. Keep your word. (Children never forget a broken promise.)
7. Discipline them. (It really is for their benefit. A child left to himself will bring shame upon himself.)
8. Spend time with them individually. (Who doesn't like undivided attention? I do!)
9. Believe them. (If you know for sure that a lie has just left their lips, do what you have to do, but if you're not sure, give them the benefit of the doubt. Better to encourage trustworthiness than suspicion.)
10. Tell them you love them. (It breaks my heart to pieces when I hear of people who were not told they were loved by their parents.)
11. Be spontaneous. (Boredom for an adult can be a nuisance, for a child it's torture.)
12. Read, Read, Read. (No better way to instill a love of reading than to actually read to them!)
13. Massage them. (Massage is an excellent way to relax, and children can become tense too. Just another way to show them that we care about them, every little part of them.)
14. Let them help in the kitchen. (Something about helping me cook intrigues my girls. Maybe they know it's a license to make a mess! Either way it's fun for them, and it makes for some really great memories.)
15. Teach them to pray. (Thanksgiving, repentance, praying for others, and themselves.)
16. Get to know them. (What makes her tick? What's his favorite subject? These are things that will enable us as parents to truly be their advocates.)
17. Teach them how to clean. (Doesn't sound like a blessing? Well when they're on their own and able to keep a clean house and bless their family members, it will be clear how you blessed them with this skill.)
18. Let them choose their outfits. (Oh boy, this one is a challenge for me! But more and more I am realizing the incredible blessing in allowing this creative freedom of expression.)
19. Treat them. (I am not a believer in giving children what they want when they want it, but a *treat* now and then is a lovely way to show you appreciate their presence in your life.)
20. Keep a journal for them. (What a treasure of a gift; a book detailing all of the adorable, deep, inspiring, thought provoking things they've said and done throughout the years.)
21. Teach them a craft. (Sewing, baking, knitting, learning to play an instrument, etc... All things that will be useful as adults.)
22. Sing to them. (Balm to the soul.)

One day they will be out of the house. Let's enjoy these little blessings from the Lord; and glorify Jesus in the way we parent disciple them. 

*One last thought: Speak, teach, sing about the wonders of our God to your children. The greatest Gift on earth!*

You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. ~ Deuteronomy 6:7


This post is linked up at: Hearts & Home, Raising Mighty Arrows, Hearts 4 Home

Agree to DIsagree

Husbands and wives don't always agree; but you know that already. So what do you do when you and your husband don't see eye to eye, or how about when it's a really hard topic and you're not even on the same page at all.

I was not always understanding of what the bible meant when its instructions were: Wives, submit to your own husbands as you do the Lord. - Ephesians 5:22 In fact at that time of my life, seeking to understand its meaning was not at the forefront of my agenda. I knew Jesus, but I was not wholeheartedly committed to Him. My relationship was good. We got along and we had things in common. We loved being together. BUT, I was a control freak!! Oh, AND very demanding!! It was really ugly, I tell you. I was just not a blessing to my husband. I thought I was being a huge blessing by just being me, boy did I need a taste of some humble pie!

Then I re-committed my life to my Precious Savior. I became acutely aware of Him working on my heart. His Word says to submit to my husband so I will follow His instructions, I will not compromise His Word. He died to save my life! What a shame it would be if I didn't follow Him and seek His ways. At first it may seem difficult, fighting your flesh; but when you're drenched in His Word and His love, pleasing Him is all you want to do. When tests come, my ability gets sharpened. My conviction is strong and I will not waver on my goal of being a follower of Jesus, not merely a fan.

After being married for seven years, my marriage is now entering a very special place. A place of acceptance, humility, extreme thankfulness.... All because God is at its center. The need to be right now seems like some foolish teenage thing I was hung up on. I guess because I finally realized that just because my husband was giving in to me wasn't because he agreed I was right, but because he wanted me to zip it already! If you are a woman who struggles with submitting to your husband, or has problems communicating, I've come up with a short list of ways that have helped me. If you are passed this stage in your life or never had to go through this, that is so wonderful.

Some things that have helped me:

1. Give up the need to be right. (That need is just your pride needing an outlet. If it is something serious trust in the Lord with all your heart that He will take care of your circumstances for you.)
2. The world does not center around us wives. (We are important, we were created for our husbands, but Christ should be at the center of our marriages. Revolving around Him and His plan.)
3. Pray. (If your husband is not at the place that you are with Jesus, you will need to take this initiative. Invite Him to pray, if he refuses, pray by yourself. Do not cease!)
4.  Be intimate. (Ladies, its no secret, intimacy can change the dynamics of a disagreement immediately. I'm not saying to use sex as a weapon - I am saying to meet your husband where he is. I'm not speaking of becoming physical in the middle of a disagreement (though that may work for some =) I'm speaking of the lonely quiet nights with your backs turned to one another in the middle of the night. Reach over, swallow your pride and show your man that you love him. Men are more insecure than we think.)
5. Voice your trust and confidence in him. (When all is said and done, don't look for an opportunity to say *I told you so*. Get your mind off of the negative and affirm his decision. In fact even if his way doesn't go well, DO NOT say *I told you so*. Let him know that you support his final say, whatever the outcome.)
6. Do not insult your husband to anyone. (If you have a serious problem and need someone to talk to go to a trusted friend or a clergy member. Throwing insults about is extremely detrimental. The bible says that we are fighting against the powers of this dark world. You do not need any such evil thing attaching itself to your words and breeding and multiplying itself through gossip and judgement.)
7.  Remember he is just a man. (A man with feelings, a past, a future. A son of God.)
8. Be his friend. (That may mean keeping your opinion to yourself when he comes to you to vent about something. Notice how we say things to our husbands that we would never say to a friend. We're more careful of our friend's feelings, well let us be sensitive as a friend to our spouse. Cheer him on, support him, have FUN with him!)

There all types of situations out there in the world. All of our marriages have a different scent. Some have a stench, and vows are hanging on by shreds of tears. But no matter the situation, God is in control if we let Him be. His Word is the same today, tomorrow, and forever. Let His will be done...

Father, I come to you today in supplication for all of my sisters in Christ. The hurting, the broken, and the blessed. Be ever present in their lives, assuring them of Your love and faithfulness. Gather them into Your bosom and put to rest the pride, the anger, the jealousy. Let a new spirit rise up within them, freeing them from bondages, both deadly and mild. May Your Spirit reign in our homes, creating a place of peace, warmth, acceptance. Assist us that we may glorify You in all that we do, for You are the one and only God. The King of kings, and the Lord of lords. We worship You; we adore You. In the precious, mighty name of Jesus, Amen.

This post is linked up at: Far Above Rubies & Raising Homemakers

Weekly Lunch Menu Ideas

The more I can do in advance, the better!! There have been so many nights that I knew I should have taken our clothes out for the next day, but being so tired I say: what's the big deal, I'll get the clothes in the morning. Morning comes and what happens?! We're running late! And I do not like being late! So, when we have a doctor's appointment, or another engagement I now get our clothes ready the night before.

Same goes for meals. What's the big deal? I'll figure it out tomorrow... Tomorrow comes and I'm thrown off schedule by something as simple as what's for lunch!

In an effort to be productive in my household, while maintaing my sanity, having patience with my children, having time for my husband, and glorifying God, here goes a lunch plan:

Day 1:  Grilled cheese sandwiches, Homemade chicken soup (pre-cooked and thawed), an orange
Day 2:  Grilled chicken and red peppers quesadillas (grilled chicken pre-cooked and thawed), homemade oatmeal cookies
Day 3:  Nutella on whole grain bagel, strawberries
Day 4:  Cheese & deli turkey on crackers, fruit salad
Day 5:  English muffin pizzas, baby spinach mixed with grapes, walnuts and/or whatever is on hand
Day 6:  Ham and cheese on whole wheat toast, celery and ranch dressing
Day 7:  Peanut butter and jelly on whole wheat, banana
Day 8:  Smoothies (I buy all kinds of frozen fruits for these), banana walnut bread
Day 9:  Fish sticks, french fries, apples
Day 10: Chicken fingers (pre-cooked and thawed), baby spinach salad with whatever fruit on hand

Our meals are served with either water or milk. Orange juice is served in the morning. I first eliminated fruit juice in an effort to cut down on the girls sugar intake, and just so happens it saves us money too! Win, win! =)

My food choices are hugely affected by the weather, (rainy days= soups, stew, more veggies, sunny days=more fruit, salad - more or less) so like everything else in my life, flexibility rules! =)

Bon Appetit...

My "Schedule"

I have always been a schedule person. I LOVE order! Knowing what's coming next helps me to feel confident and calmer throughout my day, but recently things have changed. When I was admitted into the hospital pregnant with my third daughter, Olivia Faith, I relaxed a bit. I have learned (for my own household) that having FUN and enjoying our days is more important than getting things "done". Don't get me wrong, we are not idle in this house. Everyone has chores, and we keep our house. - Bedtime used to be a time of hurried impatience, now I see there is an open vulnerability in my girls at bedtime, desperate for extra time with mommy that I could really benefit from! With that said here is a rough estimation of what our new homeschooling days will look like. Now above all else, there must be prayer for a schedule. We must invite the Holy Spirit into our lives, and homes, openly admitting ANYTHING that may be hindering our communication with God. My number ONE goal is to glorify God. I may have a plan for a day, but the Lord holds the map to my life. He knows exactly how my time will be utilized the best. My children are His children first, and so He knows what they will benefit from the most. I pray for discernment to hear His voice, and courage and humility to follow His instruction. He is lovingly molding me every single day, and I adore Him for His gentleness....

6:30 AM - Devotional & Coffee
7:00 AM - Shower
7:30 AM - Girls Start Waking Up, Morning Chores
8:30 AM - Worship/Bible Study/Breakfast
9:30 AM - Go For a Walk (weather permitting)
10:00 AM - School Time
12:00 PM - Lunch Time
12:45 PM - Clean Up/Chores
1:30 PM - Mom Reads Aloud
2:00 PM - Snack Time/Free Time
3:00 PM - School Time
5:00 PM - Prepare Dinner/ Dinner Chores
6:00 PM - Dinner Time
7:00 PM - Bath Time/Story Time
8:00 PM - All Children's Bed Time

On Wednesday evenings I will do my shopping/meal planning list, and Thursday evenings I will shop for whatever perishables are needed. Big shopping trips will be done every three weeks. Saturday afternoons will be spent freeze cooking and cleaning bathrooms and mopping. Dusting, vacuuming, organizing, laundry, etc. will be done during the week with the help of my girls. Ideally I would love to clean my fridge every two weeks at least, but that is just not happening at this point in my life. Maybe every three to four weeks is more like it. All counters (kitchen/bathrooms) get a wipe down every day. And kitchen floor is swept every night. I am not opposed to tackling a toilet at night when the children are asleep. My husband gets home very late, so if he is not home yet and I want to free up some time for my weekend, I will do what I have to do at night. Or, even break up the job, such as cleaning a toilet, but leaving the scrubbing of the bathtub for Saturday. A clean house is a must, but not at the expense of becoming run down. Everything must be prioritized and flexibility ensures my sanity =.) When I get into a comfort zone with homeschooling I will post my cleaning schedule because for now my old routine no longer works for me. Though one things remains the same, beds MUST be made in the morning. If left undone, it may be toooo tempting to sneak back into that "baby" in the middle of the day; which would NOT be good!! =)

My children/students =) are ages six, three, and 10 months. Teaching will be a challenge, but what I keep reminding myself is that life is a classroom. While I do believe in a structured setting, my life right now calls for improvisation. This is "the plan": While I work with my three year old, my six year old will play with the baby (my three year old is slightly developmentally delayed and needs a lot of re-directing so I have to focus with her.) While I work with my six year old, baby will be napping, and three year old will be having quiet time and/or playing with novelty toys (toys that I rotate to make them feel "new" again!)

My deepest desire is to please God with how I spend my day. That is not always the easiest thing to do. May His mercy and grace be ever present.... It is also on my heart to mention that husbands NEED time too. Too easily husbands are pushed to the back burner when we are mothering small children. I have been guilty of this, and it is wrong. Now, you know your husband, you know what he likes and what he does not. I know it's not romantic to "schedule" time for your husband, but if it is either "schedule" him in, or fall asleep on him?? Make time to do what he appreciates. Planning may seem awkward, but its practicality is assuring that He won't be neglected. God desires that you are available for your husband, that you bless him, and care for him. And don't be discouraged when you don't feel creative or romantic, just pray. Pray for a willingness to be desirous to your special husband, and to have a desire for him....

Happy "Scheduling"...

This post is linked up at: Like a Bubbling Brook , Homemaker By Choice , Heart of the Matter & {TITUS 2}SDAYS

Jesus answered them, "“Most certainly I tell you, everyone who commits sin is the bondservant of sin. - John 8:34

Sin.

What a nasty little word. Please let me encourage you, if you are living in sin, stop now. I am not passing judgement on you; I merely have been made a lover of people, and so in my love for you I urge you to withdraw from the destruction that will eventually cause your demise, and separation from God. People who conceal their sins will not prosper, but if they confess and turn from them, they will receive mercy. - Proverbs 28:13

Now of course, we are all sinners. For everyone has sinned; we all fall short of God's glorious standard. - Romans 3:23 We were all saved by grace, nothing ANYONE did brought upon their salvation, no matter how holy! For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith-and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God-not by works, so that no one can boast. - Ephesians 2:8-9 And by Gods grace He can choose to multiply your blessings. I was once drenched in sin. I have done incredibly shameful things. I am no longer ashamed. I have been washed in the blood of my precious Savior, and my deepest desire now is to cling to Him, and shun sin. I will now use what satan intended for destruction, for LIFE,  and spread the word that there is LIFE after death! But thank God! He gives us victory over sin and death through our Lord Jesus Christ. - 1 Corinthians 15:57 There is hope for the broken-hearted, for the wayward. His name is Jesus! She shall bring forth a son. You shall call His name Jesus, for it is He who shall save His people from their sins. - Matthew 1:21 

All too often sin is regarded by drugs and lust. And yes in those casings, sin is horrid, but please let us remember that sin can be present in the mildest of ways. Such as a little venting gossiping about others, or thinking of coveting someone's "seemingly" better life. How can that be glorifying to God. Quite frankly, it is an incredible insult to Him! All that is available to YOU through Christ Jesus! We should not be dissatisfied. Because we are human, if you find envy creeping into your heart, PRAY! Fast if you must, just do not succumb!

Do you need a breakthrough? Are you in need of a touch from God? Pray to Him, Praise Him, Give unto Him, Esteem others above yourself, and friends, don't forget to ask God to dust all the corners of your heart. Sin can be subtle. Satan is no fool. Make the decision to worship God with your righteous decisions out of pure love for what He has done for you. I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. - Romans 12:1 

One last thought: Mature Christians, for the love of Christ, HAVE MERCY! Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy. - Matthew 5:7  There are broken women who were not exposed to Jesus and His love and compassion. They are torn, dying, lifeless. Let us remember the shame, ridicule, and pain our Lord endured so that we may have a life with our Father in Heaven. When presented with the opportunity to extend Gods grace to an unbeliever (no matter their appearance), jump on it ( something I am working on, being bold for Christ)! God will get His word through to whom He calls, so if we are not obedient to deliver His message, He will find someone willing, but we will miss the chance He gave us to grow. Let us step out of our comfort zones and not only TELL about the love of Christ, but SHOW, and BE the love of Christ. When a love such as the love of Christ is alive within us, we will exude mercy, compassion, forgiveness, love for our fellow women. Women who need to know what we know, feel what we feel, and be free the way we have been set free. Since it is written, "You shall be holy, for I am holy" - 1 Peter 1:16


Bless you in the Name of Jesus!

Students of Clarity Christian Academy....

My delightful 1st grader. She is so pleased with the classroom I just put together that she has been begging me to start school! Needless to say that has me very happy! =)

My precious pre-schooler aka "the challenge"! She keeps me very busy, and I can't lie I'm a little nervous about juggling school work and this little one! But with GOD ALL things are possible! =)

Now this adorable baby is going to get some schooling too! Baby Einstein flash cards, here she comes! =)

Words can't describe the joy, the peace, and the humility I feel about God calling me to this responsibility. Really, it's as if the calling to homeschool was there all along; because it was. There will be challenges, people will criticize me, and who knows what else will go wrong! But I will not focus on those things. I will keep my mind set on my Lord Jesus Christ and His perfect plan for my family. I will cling to Him and His promises and keep on moving....

Photos of the School Room to Come... =)

This post linked up at: "Not" Back to School Blog Hop & Raising Homemakers & A Wise Woman Builds Her Home

My Homeschooling Supplies for 2011-2012

These supplies do not include things I will need to buy for projects. They are just a few things to get us started...

I am so excited!! And notice my devotional: Daily Focus... =) I just could not pass that one up!! 

Raising God Conscious Children

I first started this Raising God Conscious Children page to hold myself accountable to the things God was putting on my heart in regards to raising my children. I have been so blessed to have shared my time with you all!

As I begin to homeschool this year, God has put a whole new set of topics on my heart. I will continue to blog and post on facebook, but as The Humble Homemaker. I will continue to encourage women on mothering, homeschooling, and being a wife. If you could join me, I would LOVE that! =) I absolutely love the role we women play in this world and I have a heart for uplifting and inspiring others to excel in this beautiful gifting of being a woman. Not just any kind of womanhood, but biblical womanhood. I am a definite work in progress, but I am not trying to reach any pinnacle. My desire is to walk from glory to glory with my Lord Jesus, and embrace His revelations with wisdom and grace. 

I am passing on this meaningful platform to my dear friend, Angela. She has a huge, willing heart for the Lord, and will be able to minister to you all in a most powerful way. Please encourage her as she seeks the Lord on your behalf to bring to you His unending wisdom. 

Thank you for your support. My prayer for each and everyone of you is that His grace, His mercy, His love will be felt throughout your day, every single day. And that you would never feel alone in this high calling of parenting discipling your children. 

With Love,

Tanya

Biblical Womanhood

"Christian motherhood means dedicating your entire life in service to others. It means standing beside your husband, following him, and investing in the lives of children whom you hope will both survive you and surpass you. It means forgoing present satisfaction for eternal rewards. It means investing in the lives of others who may never fully appreciate your sacrifice or comprehend the depth of your love. And it means doing all these things, not because you will receive the praise of man for you will not, but because God made you to be a woman and a mother, and there is great contentment in that biblical calling." ~ Doug Phillips

This passage is absolutely beautiful to me. I did not grow up in a home where biblical womanhood was the theme of the day. While my parents are such awesome people, they did not influence my life in that way. I didn't even grow up in the church, but amazingly I grew up in a relationship with God. His voice was always with me. Nudging me, comforting me, gently rebuking me, and always calling me. I was conditioned by many different influences in my life that independence and strength in a woman were a must in order to survive. As a result I hardened my heart, and is there anything more painful than a hardened heart?! Well, then it was the very mechanism that sustained me (really God's grace was sustaining me =), but now I see where the true power lies. Only a revelation from God Himself can bring to life the exquisite and rare beauty of the servant woman. Serving her family, following her husband.  What an honor and quite frankly a relief it is to submit. My gosh! Who knew! The delicate place of a woman is such a magnificent calling. God made man and woman specifically, and purposefully different. As a strong willed woman, this was hard for me to swallow at first, and I am still wiggling my way into my position, but now I see its benefits and its purpose clearly. Ultimately, it is Gods call on our lives. So, for the woman who struggles with releasing the reigns, trust me, I know how you feel! But may I encourage you to not close off this section of your heart to Him. God wants to do big things in your life, be encouraged! And He needs a willing vessel, willing in ALL areas. Just as a friendly reminder, His will is always perfect, and sometimes those little seemingly innocent strongholds that we don't like to let go of are the very things blocking our breakthroughs. I could have never imagined that I, stubborn, controlling, hard~headed, Tanya Monique would feel so blessed to bow down in humility. I used to excuse away the calling by saying: well God made me this way! Oh no no... I was conditioned that way. I had to stop conforming God to suit my needs. If there is no discomfort in our walk with God, maybe it's time to re-evaluate, because He is a God who desires for us to grow. And growth hurts...  So worth every sore...

As in laboring with child. Oh that pain! But then you hold that precious little miracle in your arms and you are whisked away into a land where the pain is acceptable. Not pleasant, but not horrific either. Motherhood... What a high calling. We will shape another human beings life! We have an opportunity, from the very beginning to mold warriors for Christ. What will speak the loudest volumes is in how we serve others. Because Jesus was a servant, there is no better way to show the love of Christ, the conviction of Christ, the purpose of Christ. His sacrifice was the ultimate, and thinking of His death should lessen any burden we feel about serving others. And when He is sought wholeheartedly, He provides the supernatural help to preserve us. For my yoke is easy and my burden light ~ Matthew 11:30  And from the well spring of the servants life shall a world of endless possibilities flow...


God bless you and prosper you in your home as you care for your precious family. To God be the glory!

This post is linked up to: {Titus 2}SDAYS & Far Above Rubies

My Sophia...

So there is a story that goes: There was a woman who was married to the president. They ran into an ex boyfriend of the woman's who was a man of lowly standards. The president looks at his wife and says: Look, if you had married him, you would not have been married to the president. The woman replies: If I had married him, he would have been the president.

How great! And inspiring!!

Wives, let us work on ourselves that we may come to a place of greatness. Dare we take the focus off of what our husbands are not, and focus all that is available to us through Christ Jesus. Let us be determined to be women of substance, women who know God intimately. Women who are like this:

She is clothed with strength and dignity;

she can laugh at the days to come.

She speaks with wisdom,

and faithful instruction is on her tongue.

She watches over the affairs of her household

and does not eat the bread of idleness.

Her children arise and call her blessed;

her husband also, and he praises her:

“Many women do noble things,

but you surpass them all.”

Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;

but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.

Psalm 31 25-30

Daughter of the Most High King, Be blessed in your marriage and also be blessed because of who you are in Christ! Minister to your husband, words are goods, but being a vessel for God to work through is better. Ministering with your very life.. Blessing him all the days of his life....

Be Where You Are Supposed To Be....

In the spring, at the time when kings go off to war, David sent Joab out with the king’s men and the whole Israelite army. They destroyed the Ammonites and besieged Rabbah. But David remained in Jerusalem. One evening David got up from his bed and walked around on the roof of the palace. From the roof he saw a woman bathing. The woman was very beautiful, and David sent someone to find out about her. The man said, “She is Bathsheba, the daughter of Eliam and the wife of Uriah the Hittite.” Then David sent messengers to get her. She came to him, and he slept with her. (Now she was purifying herself from her monthly uncleanness.) Then she went back home. The woman conceived and sent word to David, saying, “I am pregnant.” - 2 Samuel 11:1-5

If you continue reading the chapter you will learn of David's efforts to try and cover up this terrible sin he has committed. Eventually when all else fails he has Bathsheba's husband killed and takes her for his own wife. God is very angry with him and strikes the fruit of their affair (a son) dead with an illness. The story is very interesting; I encourage you to read it if you have not already. My pastor touched on this passage not long ago, but reading it for myself today was a true eye opener.

So while I was reading the first two paragraphs I saw very clear where the problem laid:  In the spring, at the time when kings go off to war, David sent Joab out with the king’s men and the whole Israelite army. They destroyed the Ammonites and besieged Rabbah. But David remained in Jerusalem. One evening David got up from his bed and walked around on the roof of the palace. From the roof he saw a woman bathing.David was not where he was supposed to be! He was supposed to be off fighting a war! For whatever reason, he did stay behind and temptation took hold of him and devoured him.

I know that we are all well meaning and committed to our husbands, and that most of us would cringe at even the thought of committing an offense toward our spouse. But: Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour.- 1 Peter 5:8 

 Please let us not underestimate his tactics and his desire to destroy and kill. Let us be mindful that we stay away from places that we do not belong, like David who was in his palace while he was suppose to be off fighting a war!


This post is linked up at: A Wise Woman Builds Her Home & Raising Homemakers

A Woman of Passion By T.D.Jakes

Married women, satan will try to rob you and your husband of the passion God created for you to enjoy. The enemy will try to callous your soft, supple flesh with stress and unforgiveness and leave you with a hard shell that imprisons a broken heart. He is afraid for you to love and give. There is a level of romance and chivalry in marriage that the Father meant for you to enjoy-not just sex, but sensitivity. More than obligation or performance, I am talking to you about the return of passion.

If you are not careful, life will cause you to leak. Your marriage will be drained by the leaking passion and wilted excitement produced by hard times and struggle. Your mommyhood will try to rob you of your womanhood. Satan wants to leave you drab and aloof, hiding behind religious excuses rather than fighting your way out and being the wife and woman you were created to be.

Perhaps you do not need to know this now. But someday when you feel a heavy depression about to descend upon what was once a vibrant love, you will need to turn to God as your Friend. When that day comes, you may suddenly realize that your husband is longing for the woman you used to be. Somewhere beneath your problems is another woman screaming, "Let me out! I want to love and live." This is the woman who has been trampled by low self-esteem and fear of rejection. She is the woman you were before. Remember her?

She is soft and sensitive, fanciful and frilly. She is bright eyed and full of mischief, creative and sensual. Your husband has been on a fast, waiting for her to step out of the freezer. If ever there was a time you needed to stop suppressing her and let her loose, it is now.

I can't leave you lying in the bed of despair with your emotions dead, your passion subdued, your attitude cynical, your disposition critical. God says, "Arise." You are about to have a resurrection. It will be so strong that your husband should feel it. your children should feel it. From the prayer room to the bedroom, a loosed woman is free!

Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. - Matthew 11:28

Rest...

What a foreign word, a foreign concept. I don't know if it's the American in me, but resting is a hard thing to do. I mean who has time to rest? Certainly not mothers! Or is it the very thing we should be sure to fit into our schedules?

In October of last year I gave birth to my beautiful, miraculous baby girl Olivia Faith. I broke water at 20 weeks, delivered her at 30 weeks. Not one doctor was able to tell me why my amniotic sac tore, but I knew. I know deep inside of my heart that I needed to learn the art of slowing down. At 28 weeks (after being on bed rest for 8 weeks), I resealed. I was discharged from the hospital and came home to my family. After resting so much, I couldn't stay still. Two weeks later I broke water again. When I think of it now I actually risked my daughter's life by not staying on bed rest. I didn't think of it like that then, but  that's exactly what I did. I am so ashamed, but I share this with you to urge you to rest.

Our children need well rested parents; and our children need to learn how to rest (being lazy and being idle is a totally different topic). When my children have melt downs I know exactly what's causing it. Exhaustion or hunger. It's always one of the two. There are a few other possibilities, but those are rare. The popular culprits are being tired or having skipped a meal. What do I do? What do I say? "Oh sweetheart, I know, come to mommy, you need to rest." We know how important it is for them to be in bed on a school night to avoid morning attitudes, how important to rest during an especially busy week to avoid their immune systems weakening. Oh, but when it comes time for us to rest! And here's the thing: they rest because we make them rest, but what's going to happen when they grow up? Probably be just like us? Maybe not. But I know I don't want to take the chance with my girls. I want them to know that their bodies are a sanctuary to be nurtured, to be respected. Our bodies are worthy of rest. Guilt free rest. Rejuvenating rest. Healthy, strengthening rest. Sweet, delicious rest!

I believe that when we rest, we strengthen our spirits and our ability to hear God. And weren't we made to have a relationship with our creator? Who has patience for relationship when we are not rested?

Let us not deprive ourselves. Our children need to know the importance of rest. For goodness sake, even God rested! And He urges us, He actually tells us directly in scripture: Come to Me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Glory, Hallelujah!!!

My prayer is that everyone will deem themselves worthy of restoration, of rejuvenation, of rest. How can we be the patient, kind parents we wish to be if we don't take care of our own selves. Rest in God and let Him restore, refresh, and renew you. Let us be encouraged to raise God conscious children by teaching them the importance and the power of resting.

...and this stone that I have set up as a pillar will be God's house, and of all that you give me I will give you a tenth." - Genesis 28:22

Asia: Mommy, mommy look at how cute this is!!

Me:   Oh yes honey that is adorable.

Asia: Can I have it?

Me:   No.

I learned (maybe a little late) that I had to stop buying my daughter every single little thing she wanted. Not only was it breaking the bank, but I felt that it was sending her a very wrong message. I started noticing that her emotions were linked to whether or not she would walk out of a store with what she thought she truly NEEDED. Hmmmmm, I wonder where she's getting this from? Well, I tell you no lie, I love shopping! I've even been excited to buy her toys that she wasn't even begging for to then in a couple of months find myself chucking it into the donate bag. And this is why it was even more important to me that she grow up free from the lie that your purchases will make you feel better. I know tons of women who would tell me: Tanya, stop it right there. Okay I'm there, I get it, therapy shopping can be super therapeutic and very very fun. But ultimately should not be anyones source of confidence. I've bought things and have felt better, but whatever the issue was to begin with still existed after my spree.

We now buy Asia (and the other girls too, but they haven't started asking. Yet!) things on her birthday, Christmas and the ending of the school year. Of course little treats on Valentines and Easter. Now trust me, she is no way near deprived. There are enough toys in my house to start two day cares. And even when the bank can tolerate a stretch, we have decided to forgo the extra "things". Here's why: Responsibility and Accountability. So here's what I did: Asia, why don't we see what you have in your piggy bank at home. You can keep 80% of it, but 10% has to go back in the bank, and another 10% you have to give back to God. This particular day that I started this she had $10 in her bank. I can't tell you how excited she was that she was able to keep a majority of the money and also how very excited she was when she learned that she would be taking a dollar to church with her and giving it to her Sunday school teacher.

Part of why shopping doesn't do what it used to do for me is because there are so many people in need. I may not be able to save the world, but I can give one day at a time of my resources and my time, and move forward as God guides me. It is so very important for my girls to know that the Lord is our provider, regardless of who employes us. And He is due what His Holy Word says He is due.

It was a gratifying feeling teaching Asia that if she can afford something then she can buy it, and that money is to be respected and not to be held too tightly. Giving is a wonderful and powerful act. Money is the hardest thing for humans to loosen their grip on and if she can grasp that God wants no other gods before Him (money), she will truly be a step ahead when her time comes to manage her own life.

Give Unto the Lord...

Do not judge, or you too will be judged. - Matthew 7:1

No matter the depth of conviction I feel toward judging, it is still a stubborn stronghold. And I'm not talking about the mom who is cursing at her child in the middle of Target. Or the teenager with the marijuana cigarette hanging from his lips. Not even the woman who is secretly having an affair! I'm talking about hard core evil.

I recently met a man who works with my husband. When I was introduced to him I realized that I had met him before, but I couldn't place him. While I was passing time he came up to me and said: isn't it crazy what happened in Japan? We started speaking about the state of our planet . Now let me describe this guy to you. Tattoos all over his body. Including the symbol of the devil on his inner arm. All of a sudden he tells me: Everyone has to get right with God because judgement day is coming! Huh? Really?! Did he just say that?!

He shared his testimony with me. After living a life of doing hard drugs, dating witches, going to dracula balls (where they drink real human blood, or cows blood), homosexuality, giving his life to satan, God called him! This was my first time meeting a former devil worshipper (or so I think) and I must say I was inspired! He told me how the father of lies had told him he was going to have a high position in hell, so he had nothing to worry about. Satan showed him the chambers of hell and swore he would have a position somewhat like that of a correction officer. He would be the guy keeping everyone under control as they tried climbing out of the lake of fire. He actually knew he was going to hell! And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire. - Revelation 20:15

One night while he was doing cocaine with his witch girlfriend, he hit rock bottom. The night turned into morning and being so high he beat the girl almost to death. He fell to the floor in despair. Flashbacks of his whole entire life started playing out in his mind. He said all he saw was death. Then: Come to my house on Tuesday. Really God? I thought church was on Sundays. Come to me.  So he went. He has been saved ever since! It was difficult in the beginning. There were many demons living inside of him and the pastor of the church had an extremely difficult time. He often cursed at the pastor and even physically attacked him. But glory to God that church never gave up on him, nor did God! I will never leave nor forsake you. - Hebrews 13:5 

There are also elders in the dark world, so he explained to me. One day, an elder approached him about his conversion to Christianity. He boldly professed his love for Jesus and witnessed the gospel! The elder told him: if I didn't know you, I would spit in your face! But he just kept on witnessing!  The joy that radiated from this man was incredible and a wonderful reminder that Jesus came for us ALL! He loves and cares and DIED for us sinners. You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. - Romans 5:6

What an important message to teach my children. The love of God is not prejudice. All are welcome into His bosom. For the law was given through Moses; grace and truth came through Jesus Christ. - John 1:17 Everyone is accepted through Christ to a new life. We were all saved by grace. Thank you Jesus!

Will you please keep this young man in prayer; lets just call him G. Thank you.

In Love and Kindness...

No Judging....

Sofrito

Every good spanish meal begins with: Sofrito!

Here is my family's recipe (Ajecitos & Recao can be found in Spanish Markets):

2 Green Peppers
1 Red Pepper
1 Green Italian Pepper
1 Bag of Yellow Onions
1/2 Bunch of Sweet Ajecitos
Handful of Garlic
Cilantro (2 Bunches)
Recao (2 Bunches)
A Pinch of Salt
2 Packets of Sasoon
1 tsp of Vinegar
1 tsp of Olive Oil

Blend it all together in a blender/food processor. You can freeze in ice cube trays for convenient use, will stay fresh longer if frozen. Use 1 to 3 cubes to make rice, beans, steaks, chicken. You name it, sofrito goes with it!

Our 2011-2012 Homeschooling Curriculum

I am overjoyed that God has put homeschooling on my heart. I honestly never even thought of it! I've been diligent in teaching, singing, reading to my children since birth (and before :), but "formal" schooling never entered my mind. Clarity Christian Academy's first day of "school" is August 22nd!

For my pre-schooler I've decided on:

Here are my picks for my 1st Grader:

We will also continue working on Spanish as a second language. I don't know if I've over done it with so many textbooks, but my daughter does have a very hungry mind. My plan is to be flexible and really get to know (more than I already know) her learning style and pace. She will also be taking ballet and an art/sculpting class. Piano and Greek are somewhere in our future plans... I will also continue to teach my girls the importance of participating in the care of our home, being humble, giving, and serving others. No curriculum can take the place of getting to know Jesus better and aiming to glorify Him in all that we do!

Happy Homeschooling...

August 10th

I actually bought some more workbooks! 

I really like the teaching technique of Ray's Arithmetic. I already purchased Horizons Math, but at the affordable price for Ray's I couldn't resist!

This post is linked to: Heart of the Matter

She makes coverings for herself; Her clothing is fine linen and purple. - Proverbs 31:22

Who doesn't want to be the Proverbs 31 woman?! She's industrious, God-fearing, diligent, trustworthy, rare, kind, giving, disciplined, influential, praiseworthy, noble, joyful, elegant... She is one fabulous woman! And I must admit I have a deep desire to be her.

When I read this verse (at this particular time in my life), I'm reminded of the saying, you have to dress for the job you want, not the job you have. Now my job is right here in my home, and sometimes that means lounge clothes for me all day! I have three wonderful children who keep me busy, tired, and dirty. But I also have a husband, who God happened to make a visual person, as all men are. I know that most thoughtful husbands would say: oh, it's okay, I understand you've been busy with the kids all day. My husband is one of those and I'm thankful as can be for that, but I know that he needs the blessing of seeing me "put together". The heart of her husband trust in her, and he will have no lack of gain. - Proverbs 31:11... She continuously blesses him. With all that she does for their household, he will still have NO lack of gain. 


My job is in my home, where I have been called to serve, it's the job that I want, it's the life that I adore. But I need to dress the part of a woman who is setting an example. Which example will that be? While simplicity and modesty in our living is the theme in our home, elegance and grace must be administered also. For is it not true that the King who is Lord in my home and in the temple of my body, pure royalty? Am I not setting an example of acknowledging that I was made in the likeness of the most beautiful person whom ever lived? 


Being flashy and extravagant are far from what I am called to be. But neat and clean are in the will of God. It is also in the will of God to be discerning toward those things which your husband particularly cares for. And please do not deprive your husband in the name of being "holy". Our heavenly Father wants us to decorate our marriages with pearls of pleasure and beads of bliss. He delights in the undefiled bed. We are married for goodness sake! Explore, rejoice, intimacy is something worth celebrating, and a woman who is mindful of her appearance in the presence of her husband will be irresistible. I know that some women might be thinking: are you kidding me, I'm trying to get my husband to want it less! If that is the case, will you pray for your intimate life. That God renew in you a creative, romantic spirit. We were made to come together often, The husband must fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; and likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Stop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again so that satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 1 Corinthians 7:3-5  Intimacy is beautiful and powerful! It lessens the burdens of the stresses of life, or simply spices up what can easily become mundane. God the creator of all things, desires that the same creativity used to create all things be alive in your bedroom!! If you have suffered abuse, please see a christian counselor, there is hope for you! God desires that you be free!


Dear beautiful woman, daughter of the King, put on your fine purple linen (it may not be linen, and it may not be purple), and bless your husband! Bless your children! Bless yourself! Bless the Lord!

Be Humbly Fabulous...

By the way, the content regarding intimacy was nowhere in the plan for this post. The Holy Spirit lead me there.

This Post is Linked Up To: {Titus 2}SDAYS

I will praise the LORD all my life; I will sing praise to my God as long as I live. - Psalm 146:2

Jesus is beyond worthy to be praised. What He did for us, I'm humbled beyond words!

I love praising. I am definitely a singer and dancer for the Lord. And I truly believe that wherever a person is in their relationship with God they should praise Him. If you believe that He died for you then that alone should move the soul to praise. I believe there is a break through when we look past our problems, our inadequacies, and our limitations. God wants to meet us at our place of need and there is something to be said for the person who understands the power in praise. Praise loosens strongholds, praise sets us free, praise lifts us up!

Dancing and singing unto the Lord in front of my children is one of the most important things I can do. Not everyone praises the same way and that is fine, but please do praise in some way. To praise God, especially in the midst of hardship is to fight adversity the most powerful way possible. In Ephesians 6:12 we read: For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. So what I get from this scripture is that I cannot fight my problems with my fists, my words, my anger. So how can I fight? With my praise because Jesus has already won the battle!

When the time comes that my three precious daughters are fighting their own battles, I want to rest assured that I've taught them the most supreme way to victory; Praise!! Let us be conscious of the way we go about our days for the sake of our children. Lord, let me not say to my children that God is a God of wonder and awesomeness, but then they not see me having a spirit of thanksgiving. May my children praise YOU until they are with you, 100 years from now (or in Your perfect time)... =)

Praise The Lord Your God....

WooHoo... I love crafts!!

Okay, who has certain baby clothes that you just can't donate or give away after your child has outgrown them? Me! Now, I donate all the time and I am not in the habit of being wasteful, but some pieces have literally stolen my heart. So here's what I do (as soon as I have time to learn how to post pics, I will post some): Take a shirt or dress (preferably thick): Cut the sleeves. Put inside out. Line the inside with plastic (ie. a shower curtain, cut to size) or any other material you think will be easy to clean. Sew the very bottom of the shirt/skirt and sew the openings you cut out at the sleeves. Add a zipper to the collar. You can string beads onto wire or thread, use ribbon, or anything you would like to add a handle and voila, you have a purse! You can add embellishments, buttons, iron on designs, etc. And you can have a little piece of memory from that favorite dress that when you put on your daughter when she was a baby, you hugged her extra times... Love!

I don't have any boys, but the same idea can be applied to a jean jacket, jeans, khakis, to make an adorable backpack!

Be Creative...

Enjoy what you have rather than desiring what you don't have. Just dreaming about nice things is meaningless--like chasing the wind. - Ecclesiastes 6:9

Are you content?

The Spirit of God alone is more than enough to keep us full and satisfied; then why do we always want more. For some it's more material belongings that we desire. Do you have a closet full of clothes with nothing to wear? Do you own a car, but it's too small, too old, wrong color? Did you know that if you own one car you are in the top 3-5% of the richest people in the world! Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. - Colossians 3:2

For others it's more spiritual gifts. We want to be holier, sometimes even coveting our neighbors spiritual gifts, but we were each made with our own individual purposes.  Just as a body, though one, has many parts, but all its many parts from one body, so it is with Christ. For we were all baptized by one Spirit so as to form one body-whether Jews or Gentiles, slave or free and we were all given the one Spirit to drink. Even so the body is not made up of one part but of many. - 1 Corinthians 12:12-14 You have your place! You're unique, special, in Christ! Some of us are city girls, country girls, grew up in wholesome families, while others struggled with one nasty sin after the other. Whatever your past, wherever you are today in Christ, take comfort that the God of the universe, the God of all things has called you His! He loves you and longs to walk with you all the days of your life. You don't have to be perfect, or have "things". All you have to have is an open heart for His love to be poured into. You don't have to acquire any single little thing to be "more" valuable in His sight. You already are a gem!

As we grow in Him, He guides us, and directs all of our beautiful steps toward a holy life. Let us be obedient to His voice and long to please Him. Open up His Word and drink your fill of it day and night. Like newborn babies, crave spiritual milk, so that by it you may grow in your salvation. - 1 Peter 2:2 All of your earthly desires, hang ups, and discontentment will dissipate. The God of your life will be exalted in and through you and you will never be dissatisfied, chasing after the wind again! I pray that out of His glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through His Spirit in you inner being. - Ephesians 3:16

Let us teach our precious children to be satisfied with what we have in GOD. Not only by voicing instruction to them, but by being conscious what comes out of our hearts through our mouths about what WE have or do not have.

All scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness. - 2 Timothy 3:16

In Love and Kindness...

Be Content...